It is rated as the main place to hit to bring any woman to orgasm. It can be a very controversial. Some women will tell you it just doesn’t exist!?
So, what can you do with it and why it doesn’t really matter if you haven’t got one.
If you have one (and we mean if, that’s a big if), it’s about 2.5cm to 5cm (1in to 2in) inside of the vagina on the front wall. You should be able to feel it with your finger. If you’re not sexually aroused it may be no bigger than a pea; once you’re aroused it increases to the size of a 2p piece.
It’s actually more a of a zone than a spot. If you want to explore and find out whether you have one, feel for an area that’s rough, a bit like a walnut, rather than smooth and silky like the rest of the vaginal wall.
Originally known as the Grafenberg Spot, the G-Spot was named after the gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg, who first described it in 1944. (About quarter to eight, maybe after a sherry or two).
Once you’ve established whether you’ve got one or not, you need to discover whether you have one that gives you pleasure or just feels a bit annoying. Stroking is usually the most enjoyable form of stimulation.
Sexual virtuosos recommend inserting the forefinger to about the second knuckle and making a ‘come here’ motion towards the front vaginal wall. You’ll need to experiment with pressure and length of stroke to find out what feels best for you. It’s important that you’re sexually aroused first, and also worth noting that many women say sensitivity varies throughout the month.
During stimulation, the first sensation might be the need to go to the loo, possibly because the G-spot is on the front wall so your bladder is being pushed. You can check this out by making sure your bladder’s empty first then seeing how it feels. The first couple of times it might be a bit odd, but many women say a little perseverance is more than worth it.
Some women say they ejaculate when their G-spot is stimulated. Research has shown that approximately 10 per cent of women expel between 9ml and 900 ml of fluid from the urethra during arousal and orgasm. A group of scientists examined some of this ejaculatory fluid and discovered prostatic enzymes, fuelling the theory that the G-spot is the equivalent of the male prostate.
However, another group of scientists examined the fluid and said it was very similar to urine. Latest thoughts are that the fluid is an altered form of urine that changes in chemical composition due to sexual arousal. The research continues.
Remember, we’re all unique. You may have a sensitive G-spot or you may not. If you want to explore, do it light-heartedly. Don’t turn it into the Holy Grail; there are many, many ways to enjoy your sexuality, and the G-spot is just one of them.
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