It is rated as the main place to hit to bring any woman to orgasm. It can be a very controversial. Some women will tell you it just doesn’t exist!?
So, what can you do with it and why it doesn’t really matter if you haven’t got one.

If you have one (and we mean if, that’s a big if), it’s about 2.5cm to 5cm (1in to 2in) inside of the vagina on the front wall. You should be able to feel it with your finger. If you’re not sexually aroused it may be no bigger than a pea; once you’re aroused it increases to the size of a 2p piece.

It’s actually more a of a zone than a spot. If you want to explore and find out whether you have one, feel for an area that’s rough, a bit like a walnut, rather than smooth and silky like the rest of the vaginal wall.

Originally known as the Grafenberg Spot, the G-Spot was named after the gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg, who first described it in 1944. (About quarter to eight, maybe after a sherry or two).

Once you’ve established whether you’ve got one or not, you need to discover whether you have one that gives you pleasure or just feels a bit annoying. Stroking is usually the most enjoyable form of stimulation.

Sexual virtuosos recommend inserting the forefinger to about the second knuckle and making a ‘come here’ motion towards the front vaginal wall. You’ll need to experiment with pressure and length of stroke to find out what feels best for you. It’s important that you’re sexually aroused first, and also worth noting that many women say sensitivity varies throughout the month.

During stimulation, the first sensation might be the need to go to the loo, possibly because the G-spot is on the front wall so your bladder is being pushed. You can check this out by making sure your bladder’s empty first then seeing how it feels. The first couple of times it might be a bit odd, but many women say a little perseverance is more than worth it.

Some women say they ejaculate when their G-spot is stimulated. Research has shown that approximately 10 per cent of women expel between 9ml and 900 ml of fluid from the urethra during arousal and orgasm. A group of scientists examined some of this ejaculatory fluid and discovered prostatic enzymes, fuelling the theory that the G-spot is the equivalent of the male prostate.

However, another group of scientists examined the fluid and said it was very similar to urine. Latest thoughts are that the fluid is an altered form of urine that changes in chemical composition due to sexual arousal. The research continues.

Remember, we’re all unique. You may have a sensitive G-spot or you may not. If you want to explore, do it light-heartedly. Don’t turn it into the Holy Grail; there are many, many ways to enjoy your sexuality, and the G-spot is just one of them.

To discover your G Spot, take a look here for a vast range of playful toys.

We thought we would put your way (as its getting a little cold here in the UK) the surf dudes of CA promotional ads for Sex Wax. Consisting of proving how sticky their highly popular wax really is. Now, I wonder if theres something we could do here at Topbuzza that could mimic this in a saucy way?  Answers on a postcard please!

For a long time now vibrators have been the main stead of the female sex toy collection and over the years they have been refined and redesigned into very stylish and sophisticated objects. Not so for the boys, most sex toys for men leave a lot to be desired until now. Meet the Monkey Spanker a brand new vibrating masturbator for men!

Simply turn on the vibrations add a squirt of lube to soft pad and slide in your penis. The Monkey Spanker then creates a soft but firm vibrating tube around the cock, designed to feel just like the real thing. Then simply work your cock with the Monkey Spanker vibrator, varying the strokes to suit your mood; hard and fast for a vigorous workout or slow and gentle to let the vibrations do the work for you. Whichever way you choose the Monkey Spanker will reward you with a powerful, shuddering orgasm.

Great to use on your own or with a partner. So to grab yours right now at a great price head over to here and start spanking the monkey!

I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart. For example…..

One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed.  Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says, ‘I don’t feel like it, I just want you to hold me.’
I said, ‘WHAT??!! What was that?!’
So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear…
‘You’re just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man.’ She responded to my puzzled look by saying, ‘Can’t you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?’
Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big unnamed department store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn’t decide which one to take, so I told her we’d just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said, ‘Lets get a pair for each outfit.’
We went on to the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you… she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn’t even know how to play tennis
I think I threw her for a loop when I said, ‘That’s fine, honey.’ She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement. Smiling with excited anticipation, she finally said, ‘I think this is all dear, let’s go to the cashier.’
I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, ‘No honey, I don’t feel like it.’
Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled, ‘WHAT?’
I then said, ‘Honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. You’re just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman.’
And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, ‘Why can’t you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?’

Apparently I’m not having sex tonight either….but at least that bitch knows I’m smarter than her.

You have booked your Snowboard break to the Alps and have told the better half you’ve spent a bit of cash ’splashing out’ on a new Burton Snowboard, but little do they know you’ll be grinding, waxing and carrying around with you these beauty’s!

The Burton Love Series is a collaboration between Burton and the very saucy Playboy.
Burton got together with Playboy to work on an entire collaborative collection this season and Former Playboy cover girls have been placed on snowboards, bindings and also on the inner lining of a Ronin Jacket. Released worldwide, the collection is turning heads and has even managed to have a protest outside Burton HQ to which the snow adoring company have decided that of course, ‘Its art’ and will not be changing the line up at all!
We agree, these boards will certainly be turning heads, whether it be your skills on the piste or the hot babes on your snowboard!

So Christmas is just around the corner, you’re running out of ideas about what to get the outlaws, and the boyfriend is constantly changing his mind! You’ve had a brainwave… fragrances are easily accessible but which one do you choose, so many to pick?
Well, this one will make you hungry for more, Burger King, the global fast food chain has just released Flame, a mens body spray claiming that they have captured the essence of the famous Whopper and bottled it into a handy sized little spray! Weird you might say, but the tasty spinkler is only available at the moment across the pond at an affordable $3.99 (£2.95).
So as long as your luscious boyfriend is not a vegetarian then treat him to this and see how quickly you fall in love with his Whopper all over again.

To order Flame take a look at www.firemeetsdesire.com and get ready for a scent-sational Christmas!

Well, they are here, toys for men which in our opinion are as good as the ‘real’ thing!
If you seek an incredibly realistic experience, the Fleshlight is for you. Its soft, pliable, non-vibrating Real Feel Super Skin® sleeve is made from a patented, high-quality material designed to replicate the unmistakable sensations of penetrative sex. The molded gel insert comes housed in an attractive and sturdy canister that resembles an ordinary utility flashlight, allowing for simple and discreet storage. The Fleshlight is easy to use and clean and is 100 percent safe. With proper usage, your Fleshlight will give you a lifetime of enjoyment. The insert has a mild vanilla scent and we will send you a free sample lubricant.
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